Friday, March 7, 2014

The City of Good Neighbors

When we first learned Ben's initial diagnosis, I thought this would be a private family struggle. Well, maybe not private. But I never could have imagined even a portion of the prayers and support we have received. Not even a fraction.


I grew up in Clarence, NY, a small-town-feeling community north of the city where everybody knew everybody. I graduated high school with more than three hundred people. And although I can't say I had each of them over at my house for a slumber party or to work on a school project, I feel confident in saying that I could still identify the names of each person, just by looking at their picture. And I could probably tell you the exact house where at least half of them grew up.


Andy grew up in the city of Buffalo, just a half-hour away. He graduated from a relatively small school, and still talks with, relies on, and gets together with his "crew" of guys from school, almost twenty five years later. When he sees someone he recognizes, all he has to ask is, "Where did you go to school?" before he can place them immediately. The city starts to feel really small when my husband starts dropping names and mentioning individual neighborhoods and corner stores.


Both of us were truly raised in the City of Good Neighbors.


Ben currently has more than twenty thousand people following his story on Facebook. And for a little boy that can only count to twenty-three, that's incredible.


Twenty-three, you ask? Yes. Twenty-three. Not even twenty-four or twenty-nine. His brother, too. And when they play hide-and-seek, they generally count to seventeen. I don't know. I guess you'll just have to take my word on the fact that they really are smart kids.


A friend of mine petitioned a few structures across the area to go Blue 4 Ben to show their support. The result is just breathtaking.













The Peace Bridge will be blue4ben on Friday, 3/7 and Saturday, 3/8.

The Electric Tower will be lit Saturday, 3/8 and Sunday, 3/9. And CIR Electric lit up their new canalside building downtown for Ben tonight, too. (Blogger wouldn't let me upload either of those photos!) And if you were to drive around our neighborhood, you would see many front porches lit up, blue4ben.

As if that wasn't overwhelming enough. Today, we learned that one of our own Hometown Heroes, Andre Reed, will be endorsing a Buffalo-themed shirt for Ben through 26shirts.com, a charitable organization. The first shirt to be endorsed by a player ahead of time! The shirt will be sold beginning March 17th and will only be sold for two weeks. I grew up cheering on Andre Reed and the Buffalo Bills in the 90s when I was in elementary school. How is it possible that he Andre Reed is now cheering on MY son?

Western New York truly is home to the City of Good Neighbors, a grace that has extended all over the nation and across the world. Ben may only be four years old and able to count only to twenty-three, but the number of people cheering him on and praying for God to grant him a miracle... that number is much higher than we can even imagine.

Thank you. So very very much.

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  1. I'm proud to call this beautiful city my home. I will continue to pray for a miracle for Ben. Your family is in my thoughts daily.

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    1. We are praying for Ben in West Virginia. I too have a four year old and I can't imagine what you are all going through. Going to City Honors and growing up in Buffalo were two things that have made such positive impacts on me. It is so amazing to see such love surrounding Ben and his family.

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  2. So many of my friends know you and your family personally. I have friends in Washington and Virginia praying daily for Ben. I will be bombarding my Twitter and Facebook reminding people to buy a 26shirts to benefit Ben. I own two already for others in need - the shirts and the meaning behind them are great. You can have shirts shipped or pick up locally on Main St in Buffalo. Continued thoughts with your family. ��

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  3. So PROUD to be from Buffalo!! Praying for a Super Miracle for Your Family Everyday!!!
    #blueforben #superben

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  4. Watching all of this unfold... it's breath taking! I am so proud of our city and even more proud we moved back HOME! To the City of Good Neighbors. There's no place like home... There's no place like home <3

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  5. Blue will forever remind of your Ben.

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  6. So thankful that you and your family are surrounded by loving, caring people. One look at that little boy of yours and one can't help but fall in love....and want that miracle he so desperately needs! Your story has touched my heart in ways I can't even express....God bless you all as you continue down this uncertain path....praying God sees fit to do what only He can do and make this story have a happy ending......

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  7. Our family is praying for your beautiful son and your family. May God bless you with His love and mercy.

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  8. Thinking of your sweet one tonight! Sending all my love from Chicago!! Praying for super powers for super ben!!
    xoxoxoxo

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  9. There truly is no place like home - and what an amazing one we were blessed to grow up in. Praying for Ben's miracle...
    xoxo, Ashley

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  10. It is a wonderful thing to feel the love and support of people that you know, and then to also feel the love and support of people who get to know you through this blog. Of which, I am one. Dear Ones - may you feel the love of all of those, and the tangible presence of the Most Holy One - the Great I AM - as you walk through each day. If I had blue lights - I would light them for Ben too. Ben is the age of my grandson. So I feel like somehow I get how sweet and smart your little boys are!! We are praying for you all - and especially for Ben - from Manitoba, Canada. We will continue to "hold up your arms" in prayer. You have been blessed with the gift of people who are interceding for you, and doing tangible things for you, and loving on you. May you feel that love tonight.
    Joy Klassen

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  11. What a beautiful gesture and sight to see and hear of so many praying for your sweet son. Please know if my prayers from Colorado and hope for you all.

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  12. Continued prayer for your sweet family, from Raleigh, NC. (former Buffalonian)

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  13. My sweet friend, we are here crying our eyes out at your grace and how much we love you guys. Praying without ceasing- Love, Kierstin

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  14. Hi Mindy. I hope you have time to read this... for I believe it shall give you some hope and encouragement. Last year I was in need of healing and when doctors could not help much I cried out to God and asked if this was really His will. What has happened over the past year has blown me away...I have discovered the love, goodness, grace and mercy of God in a whole new way. In short I was healed by faith within the first week of taking the limits of God. I learned what the law of faith was (Romans 3:27) and how to take authority over the enemy as He tried to steal life. So after receiving healing I just devoted this past year into understanding the New covenant that we are under and just how good it really is! Initially, God began to reveal to me that He wasn't behind sickness. It is the enemy who comes to steal, kill, and destroy. It is Jesus who gives life, and life more abundantly. Secondly He showed me that sickness was a curse, never is it listed as a blessing. Part of the good news is that we are redeemed from the curse of the law and Jesus was made the curse for us. He was punished for our peace. When Jesus died on the cross, he defeated the works of the enemy. We are healed by the stripes of Jesus is stated three times in the bible and Matthew 8:16-17 clearly refers it to physical healing. I know it sounds too good to be true but when you take the Word for what it says.... God's will is very clear. And the God we serve really is that good. He is Jehovia Rapha... our healer and great physician. Once I began to see in God's word that it was His will for me to be well and healed, then having faith for this healing and trust in God came... I forgive all your sin and heal all your diseases (psalm 103), To receive from God by faith we need to have confidence rooted in His word and that what He says will not fail us. God is active and alert watching to perform His word... and He performs His word when you use your free will to trust him and confess your faith in His word. Many of us think of faith as just believing that God is real and that His word is truth... but faith is so much more. Here is a quick example. Look in Romans 4... Abraham did not waiver in unbelief at God's promises. He was fully convinced that God was able to perform what He had promised. The bible is a treasure for us of promises from God... one promise that I confess over my children is that God satisfies them with long lives (psalm 91) and that they will still bear fruit in old age, healthy and green to declare... The Lord is just He is my Rock, and there is no unrighteousness in Him! (psalm 92). This is God's kind of love, He does not want you begging and pleading with Him. Jesus was the most compassionate man to walk the earth, willing to heal all who came to Him. He loves your son more than you and has plans for him so magnificent you can't even imagine. Now I know you know all this but I hope it was a bit of encouragement. In the face of affliction our hope can get deferred... but nothing is impossible with God. Even though you don't know me I am your sister in Christ. I will pray with you and share all I have studied if you are interested. This sickness can be defeated with the most powerful weapon you own... The sword of the spirit. My love and prayers go out to you and your family.
    Warmly, Melissa (MLCiezak@yahoo.com)
    www.savedhealed.com (This is an awesome website that will give you scriptural foundation for healing. You can also click on "healing scriptures" and print these out to confess over your son.)
    http://www.awmi.net/extra/healing (these are healing testimonies... especially watch Andrew Mullins).
    http://www.awmi.net/extra/audio/1036 (downloadable teaching on healing)

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    1. So glad to see another response for her to refer to Andrew Wommack's website/information. I just posted a similar comment today. Andrew's teachings have changed my life and helped strengthen my faith--praise God. Thanks for sharing the website with "healing scriptures". I'm saving it to use, if needed, in the future. Have a blessed day!

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    2. Thank you DJ for sharing ! My heart is breaking for this family and I am hoping they can get a hold of this teaching. It has changed my life as well! :)

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  15. As i follow along with the thousands of others, I believe we see a miracle unfolding in the sharing of love. Love is the answer, and the answer is beautifully deafening. May God bless each and everyone of you who are loving and praying for this family. Ben, you are doing so much good with your life!

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  16. Well, I also grew up in Clarence....and surely should know you....but I cant place it. I now live away...but never stray from the city of good neighbors. It is ingrained in my soul. Many of my Facebook peoples have posted your blogs and bens story. I have thought your family....on many occasions.….and wish you only the best. You will endure. Take care of yoursaelf ....and your babies. Be strong.

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  17. I don't know you guys but I have friends who do. I've been paying for you guys at school when they ask if there are any prayer request. I'll definitely keep paying for you, Ben and your family during this time. God bless!

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  18. I very much believe that prayer in numbers is SO POWERFUL and you DO have countless, way more than 23 praying and sending their love to your family! Sorry, boys! You guys haven't left my mind.for the last few days. Reading your blog was like reliving 2009! Please, if you need a friend that has been there, please contact me on my FB page. Sending ALL of my heart and mind in prayer for all of your family tonight.

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  19. My family will be wearing blue in honor of Ben tomorrow!! Please know that the Graham family in Mississippi will be praying for and thinking of you, Ben and your family! I believe in miracles, God is able!

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  20. I've been following your story and praying for your family every day. My Bible study group is now praying too, so LOTS OF PRAYERS FILLED WITH LOVE are going up to God from San Jose, California.

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  21. I just heard of your family (Facebook is good, like that) and I wanted you to know that even more people are praying for all of you. There are no surprises for God Almighty, there is nothing he hasn't seen or provided for, beyond our experience. I am in prayer for you and your family and I thank you for sharing your experiences so that others have the privilege of praying, too. May God bless and keep you close.

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  22. Praying for Ben, you, your family and friends. Much, love , hope and strength go out to you. I worked with Pete @ Curbell and also live a few houses away from the Hill's. See you tomorrow and God bless

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  23. God is so GREAT! It's amazing what he uses for His Glory! Praying for a miracle for you and your family.

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  24. You and your family are a true inspiration to us all and I can only say I am honored to share such a large part in each of your lives. As a mother of twin boys, my heart aches for you each and every time I read this. Although I have not been very religious these days for a number of reasons, I am truly in awe of the inspiration you and your family have given to me and others around you. We could only be so honored to share a part of your life like this. Your family is in my prayers and there is a miracle for Ben.

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  25. I'm proud to have lived in and near the City of Good Neighbors for my first two and a half decades. Praying for Ben and for all of you.

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  26. I came across your blog through Shawna at McGreevy Cakes. (I am a fellow cake maker and love the incredible work she does). I couldn't go to bed until I had read all your blog entries. God is doing an amazing work through your life and your family's lives and what's more amazing is that the whole world gets to see God working through your strength, endurance, faith and love in Him and for Him.

    There is no better place for Ben to be than in the palm of his Heavenly Father's hand and what strength it must have taken for you to place him there. God will bless you abundantly!

    We are praying for you and for your little Ben, for a miracle for your precious baby boy. That when every eye sees their eyes would turn heavenward and all the glory would be given to our God. I pray that through your lives many will come to know Christ and be free from the chains that bound them, receiving everlasting life. We lift up your little Jack and Megan and of course your husband Andy who must have the weight of the world upon his shoulders, but if his faith is as strong as yours, which I know doubt is, will be carried by God.

    May you feel the love of Christ through many who reach out to you this weekend.

    In Jesus Name
    Your Sister and Brother in Christ
    Len, Hannah, Jack, Amelia and William

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  27. Praying for Ben all the way from Wyoming!

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  28. Praying for Ben in Idaho :)

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  30. I believe I saw the three of you at Roswell last Friday, I was taking my father for his radiation treatment. I saw Ben sitting next to you and wondered if Ben was the patient or hoping that maybe there was nobody to watch him so you had to bring him along. I see now that Ben is the patient, my heart and prayers go out to your family and I will keep Ben in my heart and pray that he can beat this and have a normal life that every little boy should have. God Bless <3

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  31. I have identical twin boys that are 6yrs.old..& our heart hurts for you all..Found your story on a twin Mom sight..All of the twin Mommies are praying for Ben, Jack, Megan,Andy & you..His beautiful Mom..We are sharing your story every day..& praying for that beautiful boy with that precious smile..& for god to grant that miracle..He can move mountains..Much faith, hope & love from Oak forest, IL..( a town south of Chicago)

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  32. I live right across that beautiful Peace Bridge that is turning Blue 4 Ben. I was made aware of your darling son by my Beautiful/Handsome cousin's Cheryl and Chuck Nagel. I pray for you and your family and hope that you can get through this unimaginable tragedy with the love, grace and belief that you have shown to the world. I am Canadian but for now I am a resident of Clarence NY, the best neighbourhood in North America. God Bless you all.

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  33. I just read your 3-6 post and realized that you may not have had a chance to read my response to your 3-5 post (made on 3-6, also) before you wrote it. I'll repost it at the end of this comment and hope you will take my words to heart and not have to cry yourself to sleep any more. I just posted the information you shared 3-7 on my FB page and my friends are praying for Ben, too. God bless and keep you close. He only gives us a TEST so that we might have a Testimony! Praise God.
    D.J. Meeker, March 6, 2014 at 12:35 PM
    I hope and pray you will take time to watch part of the "God Wants You Well" series by Andrew Wommack. The 3-5 and 3-6 segments (less than an hour total) are at http://www.awmi.net/tv/this_week. He speaks of what parents can do for their children. Yesterday he spoke of how God expects us to participate/take authority for healing (Jesus told the woman--Weep not!). Today he talked about an aggressive faith that is needed and showed the testimony of a wife who put it to work with positive results. Her story is important because it also shows that, despite what is seen in the natural, there is a spiritual truth/healing that be can manifested. She referred to Romans 8:6. You CAN speak LIFE over Ben! Please watch these messages and have a blessed day, full of God's grace.

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  34. been wearing blue for Ben every day.... praying for miracle every day....and then my daughter just said...mom what if the miracle is he brings peace and togetherness.... what if that miracle is he shows us all the real meaning of life is God, Family and Neighbors.... yes Ben YOU ARE THE MIRACLE

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  35. continuing to lift Ben in prayer for a miracle, and your family for joy and strength for the journey….

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  36. Hi Mindy, I think your family deserves every bit of kindness your community can give. I hope Ben is having a good day. Sending some hugs & lots of love from Indiana!

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  37. I don't know you or your family, but ever since I heard about what your family is going through in Facebook, you've been in my constant thoughts and prayers. I have two young kids about the same age as yours, and it seems like every time I look at them since learning about Ben, I think of you all. I believe in miraculous healings and hope this so much for Ben. Among the thousands out there who are rooting for you all, I just wanted to extend another note of support. Blessings to you, to your family, and to Ben!

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  38. My words of encouragement come from the same posting from the last person. I don't also don't know you and your family, but you have touched my heart and soul as I have 2 boys. You are my sister in Christ, Mindy and we have been praying for Ben as well since I heard the news on WDCX. We pray for Jack and Megan and Andy for joy and grace. The Lord is good and provides miracles. Benjamin and Jack and Megan will always be the joy in your life, and as Mothers we cherish every move, every word and every action they show. Ben is such a cute little boy and pray for him everyday from Ontario, Canada.

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  39. I was telling my mom about your beautiful little boy when I saw the blue4ben sign lit up at the Delta Sonic on Delaware Ave in Buffalo....prayers for Ben and your family

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  40. Hi Mindy and family,
    Lot's of prayers going out for Ben and your family♥

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  41. I have only known your sweet boy's story for a few days, but he has captured my heart. I and my kids are praying for Ben! Your faith inspires me, you are such a blessing.

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  42. Praying for Ben and the all the family from Missouri.
    God says where two or more are gathered, without this outpouring there is no doubt God is in the midst.

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  43. Ben's start has touched my heart. We are praying for him in Madison, Wisconsin. We have 2 twin daughters who just turned 5 in January and your story has moved me in a way I've never experienced. We all pray for a miracle for Ben, and so happy to read of the love and support you are feeling. May God's love continue to life you all up.

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  44. Mindy, as I read about Ben counting to 23, I thought about Psalm 23 which is the Psalm of comfort. May you be comforted and enveloped in God's loving care for Ben and the rest of your beautiful family. You are all in my prayers.

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  45. I find myself thinking constantly of you family. I don't know you, but I know a mother's love for her child. When I say my prayers at night I always ask God for the gift of time with my family...time for my husband and myself to see our children grow into adults with loving families of their own. Now I pray everyday for that same gift to be given to you. I don't know Ben, but through your blog he has stole my heart.

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  46. Hi, I don't know you personally, but Ben is in my prayers. I would like to share something I ran across yesterday, if you don't mind. I was a little hesitant in fear of what people would think, but it has been bothering me inside to share this. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=604848772897485

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  47. Praying for Ben every day. Your incredible faith and strength, the impact your words are having on people, your family, your son ... it's all a miracle as far as I'm concerned.

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  48. Hi Mindy, My family and I have been praying for you and your entire family. Little Ben will be fine. He has God on his side. I wanted to share something with you about myself in hopes you will find strength through it. I have two boys. One 8 who is named William then I have Fynn who is 14 months. Huge age gap that is because I had William when I was 19. At the time I was excited but then as my pregnancy went on I started to think of what kind of mom I wanted for my William. I came to the conclusion that I couldn't be the mom I am now to Fynn. I was too young. I wasn't ready and I needed William to have a family. He needed a mommy and daddy who could provide what I couldn't. At 4 months pregnant I found the perfect family for William. They had two adopted children already and the mom was stay-at-home. That is what I wanted for my son. So reluctantly I made the choice of adoption. I had prayed and prayed for guidance and asked God for help and the strength to make it through because my love for William was something I had never felt before. Even though I had yet to meet him I knew he was perfect. My point in sharing this with you is to let you know God only gives you what you can handle. Years went by after I had William and my heart would ache. Time had passed and I still missed him. I didn't understand why God had helped me make a decision that lead me to so much pain. I did things for myself as I promised I would such as finish college and write a book. Then I landed a good job and loved it. I was even working out and loved my life but no matter what I had a wall up. The wall that I had built because of the pain of losing William. I knew I made that choice but still it was a pain that laid deep inside me. As I said years went by and 14 months ago I gave birth to my little guy. My Fynn! It had been 8 years since I chose adoption and 8 years of ups and downs. All around I was a happy person but something was always missing inside me. I had a void that couldn't be filled after William. It was 8 years of prayers for answers and finally God gave me the answer I longed for. When I had Fynn and throughout these 14 months I see why I made that choice at 19. Being a mom is hard work. Always worth it but hard! The best job anyone could ask for. God blessed me and watched over my heart by giving me Fynn because now I see it wasn't a mistake and what I did was the best thing for William because I wouldn't have been able to be a very good mom at 19. Going to college, working part time, and doing school work. He would have been raised by my parents or maybe I would have dropped out and then what good would I be without and education and no money to support us. God has reason for everything and in everyone's darkest moments there is light. Ben sounds like an amazing boy and that's all because of you and your family. God blessed you with three beautiful children and a community that doesn't want to give up. My family and I will keep praying for you and your family. I hope and pray my story will help you know that even if you don't get answers today or tomorrow there is a reason for what comes your way.

    May God bless you and know he is holding Ben close to him.

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  49. praying, unceasingly, for your son and his struggles. I say unceasingly because it's the first thing on my mind in the morning, numerous times during the day and when I wake up in the middle of the night. Don't lose faith!! I don't even know this little boy but I do have 2 four year old grandsons and I love your little guy like he was one of mine too. God Bless!!

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  50. My family is praying for Ben and your family. My heart is breaking for you all, praying for a miracle. Much love is coming your way!

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  51. Prayers and love to your sweet Ben.

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  52. Thanks for sharing....it's so nice to hear how Ben is being prayed for by thousands. I will continue to keep all of you in my prayers and ask Him to hear our pleas in asking for a miracle. God Bless.

    COLE'S Prayer Team

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  53. Like so many who have posted, I do not know you personally, but as a mother of two boys, ages 7 and 9, I can feel the love from one mother to another. Your sweet children, Ben's story, and your family have reached my heart thrugh and through. My continued prayers and loving thoughts are sent to you continually.

    Andre Reed is also one of my own Bills heros. My own young boys are now Bills fans and it's heartwarming to know how thoughful our team is. Ben is being cradled in God's arms with many angels keeping him safe. You have been sent a gift and your faith is the tape holding you all together.

    With much love to you and your family - God Bless you all!

    ~Samantha ~ Queensbury, NY

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  54. My heart just aches for what you all are going through.Your story showed up on my facebook today somehow right after I watched a powerful testimony of another little boy diagnosed with stage 4 cancer who was completely healed after his parents begin to apply God's word and resist this attack of the devil. I feel this was for you..here is the link. I know personally how weary we can become during a battle like this but please take a minute to watch...it is always Gods will to heal, He demonstrated that by taking those stripes on His back. Hugs to you and your precious family. http://www.awmi.net/extra/healing/mullins2

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  55. This is the first blog I've ever followed. A mother affected by your story, who lives in the same community, attending a church who loves Jesus!

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  56. I have no idea what to say. You dont know me, but I am thinking of you all so often, every day, and sending you love, and strength.

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  57. I was in Buffalo visiting family over the weekend and saw Blue4Ben on the sign at Delta Sonic in Cheektowaga! I have been surprised in following your story how many people I know that either know you directly or know of you directly through someone else. And beyond that, so many other friends have shared your posts and other updates, volunteered at the benefit, or just mentioned that they're praying. WNY definitely is a small world sometimes! I have been praying for all of you, as well. I have two friends that have been going through their children's cancer battles recently, and in looking at all of you, I'm in awe at the strength you're able to summon in the face of such adversity. Your faith is inspiring. May God bless Ben with a miracle and grant you all the strength that you need if He chooses to work His miracles in other ways. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, multiple times each day.

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  58. Dear Ben's Mom, I am so sorry to hear about your son. I am reaching out to you because I too have a son who has been a patient of Dr. Lei's at Children' Hospital in Buffalo. They are a great team. My son has been going there for the last ten years since he was a new born. My reason for reaching out to you is to urge you to seek out a second opinion. I know this is fast moving in it's progression but I have brought my own son to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, MD for two second opinions. They are one of the world's leading hospitals in new and latest technology and research. I know that you pray each day for a miracle but maybe you are the miracle that he needs. We have to be our children's advocate's and lead their way. Buffalo may have a great medical community but they are not the leaders here. My son needed corrective spine surgery and our doctor at children's wanted to completely fuse his spine. This meant that he would never grow again. I could not bear to hear this and I searched for the docotor's who had the latest technology. We went to Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester where they did a partial fusion and attached growing rods until he is done growing. He also has an optic glioma (a tumor on his optic nerve that is inoperable) If you have not sought out a second opinion I urge you to do so. Even if it costs you more than you have, there is a community here ready to give to your cause. You can be his miracle.

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    1. Chris.....I agree and hope that a second opinion is given.....there are a few centers in the country that specialize in pediatric brain tumors.....

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  59. Prayers love and support sent from Arizona!!

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  60. Dear Mindy,

    I want you to know that your are being loved and prayed for by so many people...my son, Evan (he is 6), would like to tell Ben:

    Dear Ben Sauer,
    I am sorry you are sick. I hope you feel better.

    Love, Evan

    When I wake up at night, I pray. I pray throughout the day...I know I'm not the only one.

    Love,
    Hilary

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  61. Dear Mindy,
    I will be praying for you as you go through this. Ben will be healed, even if it's not in the way you expected. God knows best, and I am so glad that you are trusting in Him. He can do miracles, and He will bring peace to you and your family. Ben is probably the bravest little boy I know. Keep on putting your faith in God, and know that thousands of prayers for your son are going up to God daily.

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  62. I first learned about precious Ben last week.....I hope you do seek another opinion at a John Hopkins, St. Jude etc as that could lead you to a MIRACLE....you are all in my constant thoughts and prayers .....XOX

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  63. Mindy, thank you for sharing your journey with us. I pray for Ben, you and your family every day, several times a day. I have to say, I sometimes get caught up in the routine of life, letting small moments pass me by because I'm "too busy". I am a mom of 3 little one's as well. You have reminded me to slow down and to be thankful for the blessing of my family, to cherish the small moments and to not let them pass me by. You are inspiring! God will only give you what He knows you can handle and as the saying goes, "if He brings you to it, He will bring you through it." I will continue to pray for Ben, you and family. A GREAT BIG HUG for Ben from my family.

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  64. May God heal you Ben and restore you to perfect health in Jesus Christ name Amen

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  65. There are no words to express the depth of sorrow I feel for your family. Prayers are the best offering I know. Nonetheless from one mom to another I am so sorry for this trial yet somehow I still have hope and sense you do too! Whether this or that side of heaven Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life still He comforts us and works miracles... I wanted to share an article with you sure you've exhausted every treatment but on the off chance I had to share this http://m.cancer.gov/topics/CAM/highdosevitaminc/Patient

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  66. You have support from Charlotte, NC.

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  67. I just hopped over from Dwija's blog. I will be praying for you and your sweet boy daily. Love to you all. God is good.

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